fix(ir): missing-field multi-assign + promoted-union-member lvalue [F0.10]

Completes the issue-0094 fix. attempt-1 made single-assign and address-of
diagnose a missing struct field; the stress-review found two remaining defects
in that change:

1. lowerMultiAssign's `.field_access` target kept the pre-fix shape — a
   struct-only loop that defaulted `field_idx 0` / `field_ty .unresolved` on a
   miss, then built the GEP and stored unconditionally. A missing field
   (`p.q, y = 2, 3`) silently wrote field 0 (printed `x=2 y=3`, no diagnostic),
   and a valid promoted-union / tuple member at a non-zero offset corrupted
   field 0 instead of its own slot.

2. attempt-1's new union branch in lowerExprAsPtr resolved only DIRECT union
   field names, so `@v.x` on a promoted anonymous-struct member reported
   "field 'x' not found on type 'Vec2'" even though `v.x = 41` worked.

Both lvalue-pointer sites and the multi-assign store now route through one
shared resolver, `fieldLvaluePtr`, that handles struct fields, union direct
fields, promoted anonymous-struct union members, and tuple elements, and
returns null (no field-0 / `.unresolved` default) on a genuine miss. Each
caller emits the read path's `emitFieldError` on null. This collapses the
three previously-divergent field-lvalue walks into one, fixing the
multi-assign missing-field corruption, the promoted-member over-rejection,
and (as a side effect of correct resolution) non-zero-offset promoted-union
and tuple multi-assign stores. The types.zig tripwire is untouched.

Regression tests:
- examples/1145 extended: multi-assign missing field (`p.r, y`) errors, exit 1.
- examples/0166 (new): promoted union member written and address-of'd,
  including a non-zero-offset member (`@v.y`), compiles and runs.
- src/ir/lower.test.zig: multi-assign missing-field field-not-found unit test.

examples/expected/0166-types-union-promoted-member-lvalue.exit

@@ -0,0 +1 @@
+0

examples/expected/0166-types-union-promoted-member-lvalue.stderr

@@ -0,0 +1 @@
+

examples/expected/0166-types-union-promoted-member-lvalue.stdout

@@ -0,0 +1,2 @@
+x=42
+y=101

examples/expected/1145-diagnostics-missing-struct-field-assign.stderr

@@ -1,11 +1,17 @@
 error: field 'q' not found on type 'Point'
-  --> examples/1145-diagnostics-missing-struct-field-assign.sx:18:5
+  --> examples/1145-diagnostics-missing-struct-field-assign.sx:20:5
    |
-18 |     p.q = 2;                              // site 1: lowerAssignment target path
+20 |     p.q = 2;                              // site 1: lowerAssignment target path
    |     ^^^
 
 error: field 'missing' not found on type 'Outer'
-  --> examples/1145-diagnostics-missing-struct-field-assign.sx:21:5
+  --> examples/1145-diagnostics-missing-struct-field-assign.sx:23:5
    |
-21 |     o.missing.a = 5;                      // site 2: lowerExprAsPtr fallback
+23 |     o.missing.a = 5;                      // site 2: lowerExprAsPtr fallback
    |     ^^^^^^^^^
+
+error: field 'r' not found on type 'Point'
+  --> examples/1145-diagnostics-missing-struct-field-assign.sx:26:5
+   |
+26 |     p.r, y = 3, 4;                        // site 3: lowerMultiAssign field path
+   |     ^^^