keyboard: fix interactive dismiss race conditions, rewrite example

Fix several race conditions in the iOS interactive dismiss flow:
- Don't skip keyboard close notifications during pan tracking, which
  left Dart unaware the keyboard was dismissed
- Guard resignFirstResponder with generation check so reopened keyboards
  aren't killed by stale dismiss completions
- Block pan tracking from starting during an in-flight dismiss animation
- Always reset keyboard view bounds when the keyboard opens, not just
  when the dismiss animator is still running
- Handle duration=0 keyboard notifications by snapping immediately
- Gate adaptive learning debug output behind kDebugMode

Rewrite the example as a chat UI demonstrating ListenableBuilder,
scroll freeze during interactive dismiss, and proper bottom inset
handling with max(keyboardHeight, safeBottom).

Modernize example Android project from v1 to v2 embedding with
current AGP/Gradle versions.

example/android/gradle/wrapper/gradle-wrapper.properties

@@ -1,6 +1,5 @@
-#Fri Jun 23 08:50:38 CEST 2017
 distributionBase=GRADLE_USER_HOME
 distributionPath=wrapper/dists
 zipStoreBase=GRADLE_USER_HOME
 zipStorePath=wrapper/dists
-distributionUrl=https\://services.gradle.org/distributions/gradle-4.10.2-all.zip
+distributionUrl=https\://services.gradle.org/distributions/gradle-8.11.1-all.zip